A random one.

Its de time….. …….

where im beginning to receive wedding invitations! A joyous occasion indeed, but also one tat makes me more emo…. ahhh……. ;/

and lately, ive been asked many qs…

“so been dating already?”, “too many eligible guys for u to choose is it?”, “expecations set too high huh?”

“or no car to drive u ard?”, “just started working? cant support u?”

(overly concern? or simply BB- busybody?)–> or am i just too sensitive? :/

*some hav even told me which zodiac to look out for (so tat its compatible to mine etc)… -.-”"”

The qs pple can tink of will nvr end i suppose. To some extent, i felt like replying “when i am attached, you will be de first person to know ok?”

Seems like i always give pple de impression tat my future partner gotta hav his own vehicle… be able to bring me ard for good food… and pockets big enuf for shopping before i will consider him?

i recall de past 3 r/s.. and if i were to say, none of them drives (except for de last one but it was used only if his parents were not driving)…

Driving in Sg is no doubt more convenient, but def not de first priority in a r/s?

Character plays a more impt factor than physical appearance/ material aspect, no?

Hmm, guys who can hold a worthy conversation emits more attraction i guess =p Amidst our busy lifestyle, fate is not (powerful) enough? A combination of fate + chance will probably kickstart a friendship and de rest.. is for time to tell.

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Last wkend, “birthday card” was on my “things-to-buy” list, so i tried sourcing for a good one.. Good fren made a remark “wah, u still sending birthday card? now its send sms liao leh…”

True. i cant rem wen i last received a birthday card too (aside from de one given by my fam). Technology has advanced tat perhaps, we shld even feel blessed if someone actually bothers to send a sms reading “Happy Birthday”!

(i am guilty of this in fact. SMS is such a fast and convenient way to relay a msg over - i always excuse myself with this reason “at least i rem xxx birthday and did sms him/her. better than nth huh?”)

I like de traditional way of giving/ sending cards (be it for birthdays, xmas etc.). Personalised cards are usually closer to the heart and more well-received? Or at least i hope it is.

“Let this paper of love continues, as nothing is more sincere by doing it with effort.”

P.S A random tout… can we tell a gal’s feelings towards a guy by the way she looks at the guy?